What questions should I ask while my therapy is being decided?

You can help yourself in many ways.  Most people when just told they have cancer are stunned. Some patients may not be able to think, or think only of what has to be done immediately and what may happen in the future. First, take a step back and try to relax.

And there are questions you can ask.  Find out the name of the cancer, where it is located, what tests need to be done, and what therapies are being considered. Know the risks and benefits of any therapy being proposed. Ask how well you will be able to care for yourself and for others around you while getting therapy. 

Radiation therapy often requires 4 treatments each week although the time at the facility may be measured in only minutes each visit. You need to know about what to expect. Will you be fatigued? How do you make sure you're not at risk for infection or bleeding? Will you be tired? Will you lose your hair?  

The duration of chemotherapy for each infusion can be much more variable than radiation, but, in the infusion area or office, is almost always at least a half hour for each visit. Some infusions take hours; some may even require an overnight stay. All the chemotherapies have a potential for side effects that can last hours to days. Based on the specific chemotherapy being given, you can identify what side effects to expect and for how long.

Know what the goal of therapy is. Is cure possible?  That is a hard question to ask but important for you to know to help make decisions about therapy. 

Find out the names of the people in your physician's office and the infusion center. 

Know what to do if you need care unexpectedly during the day, at night, or on weekends.